An OBGYN once told me: “Think of pregnancy and labor as the first lessons in the flexibility it takes to tackle parenthood. You may think that you are in control, but at the end of the day that baby is. When it comes to delivery, healthy/happy baby and healthy/happy mama are the most important things.” Looking back now, after experiencing three completely different pregnancies and three completely different deliveries, that statement still holds true. I am somewhat Type A a